There are aspects of a group/community like this that lends itself to all manner of perversions and fun, kinky ish. It’s kinda the taboo that draws us.

A comment I recently made…

From a male perspective.. there have been times when I just got off on the thought of a person watching me. That's cool and I'm glad you enjoy the show. But I think the higher goal is the connection. Everybody is here in some capacity for connection of some sort. Whether it be conversation, to be seen, to be touched, or to be intellectually stimulated/engaged. Kinks, when done right, have a way of tapping to the inner most desires of a person and potentially fulfilling a need that has been neglected. For me yes, like most guys with a bent toward exhibition, I love to be seen but there is more when the opportunity presents itself.... To be validated in a vulnerable space and submerged in appreciation for an act so beautifully selfish that it has to be shared...

Further… the intimate, taboo, kinky, vulnerable space that’s afforded opportunity to thrive while edging with someone can be primitive, primal, sexual, emotional, loving, accepting or just the release of tension that’s needed to get on with the difficult parts of life. Maybe we all could be so lucky to find one who finds pleasure in you finding your pleasure as their only