I have always been interested in sex toys, and actually have quite the fetish for female sex toys. I get hard when I hear anything that sounds like the hum of a satisfyer, but I digress.

I have had just about everything, with the exception of the few extremely elaborate cock milking machines that run into the thousands of dollars. But I have had/have various strokers, fleshlights and fleshlight like toys with vibrators you hump into more than stroke with. Vibrating sleeves that you just put on your cock and leave there to vibrate away. Cock rings, cock ring prostate stimulators, prostate vibrators, and butt plugs. I have bought a few inexpensive (sub $70) automatic strokers. I have a handy, a much more expensive automated stroker. One thing I have found, is with slightly above average girth, I have to be extremely careful with automated strokers because there usually a little tight, especially when I am edged hard, pulsing and dripping. On the flip side, the handy has an adjustable band, but I have to set it so loose, as the session goes on and lube starts to get on things, the band keeps slipping off the sleeve, and using a random pattern, it will do faster longer strokes, and the band fucks up right at peak goon, and fixing it becomes such a buzz kill.

The best I have ever had though, is a magic wand with a vibra cup attachment. They make two types, one that is more like a stroker, but at my girth I found it gets uncomfortable during longer sessions. The cup is designed to go over the head. To hold the cup on the wand (it will become a goon state buzz killer and slip and slide with time and lube) I use a a strap cap wand harness, which is designed to go over the top of wand sex toy attachments and secure them to the wand. Importantly, I cut the very top of the vibra cup attachment off so that I can easily keep plenty of lube flowing in without interruption, and when it’s time to cum, I can watch my cum shoot out which is an important part of the experience for me.

I use the original magic wand with an optional speed controller. I used to sort of strap the wand to a bunch of towels rolled up using Voille ski straps, which are a super versatile rubber strap for binding together outdoor gear, but are excellent for many household and “other” situations. I’d put these in between my legs, which positioned the wand so I didn’t have to hold it. I am then hands free with the exception of using the variable speed controller. I can then enjoy my favorite porn or gone wild audios (or both at the same time) and edge myself with the speed control dial.

The precession and accuracy with which you can ride the edge using the controller is unrivaled. With an on/off switch and the way the sleeve provides a gentle squeeze, getting too close is easy to stop without ruining. I find it easier and more precise than any stroker I have ever had.

But what really brought it next level was adding an articulating arm cell phone mount, that’s designed for setting up a cell phone to, for example, record you chopping vegetables for your Instagram. I can position and reposition the wand so precisely, with no fuss, it’s absolutely incredible. I can position it to perfectly account for the length and slight curvature of my penis and how it might slightly change as I adjust my sitting position.

I have an edging porno clip mix that I made. It’s dirty talk, sex scenes, and cum shots, edited down from ~30 different porn clips from manyvids that are not available on any free sites. It’s organized quick cuts and 3 hours long building toward a really great end scene of a couple edging and dirty talking until he cums on her and she cums.

I went the entire three hours in absolute bliss with this setup. The culmination of years of tinkering and two months of editing my ethical, fairly purchased porn, into the ultimate mix tape for me.

Anyway, I don’t overdue it with the vibe so I don’t cause damage/desensitize, but I am very excited for the next session.