Hi I am John a 20 year old sub, and I am looking for a long term Dom and sub relationship, I desperately need someone who I can trust, someone who I can give control and leave myself in her hands, I love to talk about my kinks and fantasies, about what i wish you could do and what I would love to do to you and how much I need you and want you. I want you to make me feel safe, I think that trust and respect are key for any kind of relationship be it just nsfw or emotional too. Outside of the bedroom I work as a chef and have to be in total control over everything and it wears me down quiet a bit, after a long day I just yearn to release all control and let myself be controlled by someone I can trust and someone who can respect me and whom I can respect too. I am semi vanila in the BDSM part but only semi, I do have some odd kinks that are maybe not for everyone and I would love to disguise it If you are interested in them, my fantasies are anything but softcore to be honest, I live to pleasure my partner and to get her to the peek of her orgasms , your orgasm is my orgasm. I love to spend my free time hanging out with my friends, gaming, lissening to music or going on walks.

Kinks: Edging,Orgasm control,JOI,Cock slapping,Praise, Being called a slut, Being told that I am just a toy for pleasure, Face sitting, pussy licking, nipple play, wet panties.

Limits: Scat,Gore,Underage,Anal, and prob some other that I can't think of right now.

I would like to find someone in my time zone so someone from Europe would be nice, but I had some experience for different time zones and we could prob work something out. I believe that honesty should be in first place in order for something to work out, I am a bit paranoid so I won't send my face pic after 2 messages and I don't expect you to send one too right away, lets first see if we can make do with each other and see how it goes.Anyway I hope to hear from you soon, if you got any questions feel free to ask right away

DEAL BREAKER: NOT RESPECTING MY LIMITS OR DECISIONS AND PUSHING ME TO DO SOMETHING THAT I DISLIKE