Hello!

I'm generally pretty shy and I'm an introvert to boot so interacting with people has always been a challenge for me. I spend most of my time at home cuddling with my cats and playing games, watching youtube, reading light novels, watching the occasional anime and generally being a huge nerd! Although I don't get out much, I'm told I'm easy to talk to, listen well, and that I'm kind and friendly. I don't like texting as I'm always overthinking every message I type out, checking it over and over to make sure I get my point across. Small talk is also difficult for me, many people believe I'm quiet because I don't join in on small talk, but if you get me started on something I enjoy I'll talk your ear off.

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I've never actively sought out a relationship before, having believed that 'love would find me' one day. I have no experience dating and, of course, I'm still a virgin.

What am I looking for? Honestly, I'm not entirely sure. Is it possible to know what your 'type' is if you've never been in a relationship? And as a short male, I don't feel like I can make judgments on someone's physical appearance.

That said, if you're looking for short term fun, I'm going to be more judgmental. It's my first time and I'm afraid I'm going to have performance anxiety, especially if I don't know you at all, and if you're more conventionally attractive maybe that will help ease that feeling. I don't know? But that's how I feel...

Couples/Polygamy/ENM... I'm not necessarily against the idea but please, please read my post. I'm short, shy, and inexperienced. I'm not going to be your bull. I'm not going to be dominant. I'm so nervous about my first time as is so keep that in mind before messaging me.

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I want to get into dating but my lack of experience has held me back. Ultimately, I want someone who can be patient with me, doesn't mind my inexperience, and can help guide me. I'm open to almost any type of relationship, long term, short term, whatever, as long as we both understand what we want out of the relationship. Right now I'm just looking to add some intimacy to my life which I feel I've been without.

As for my physical description, I'm 5"2, weigh in at 158 lb, and have light blue eyes. I have long curly brown hair but I'm balding around the front, and I also have a full beard.

I'm never sure how long to make these. But hey, if you've made it to the end, thanks so much! If you're at all interested feel free to send me a DM or chat. Again, please be upfront about what you're looking to get in your message.

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