I, INTJ M, have encountered few ENFPs IRL. If ever I dated a type, I have a soft spot for ENFPs.

Bottom line, is that the chemistry is sudden, strong, and seems unhealithy unnatural.

I don’t understand how you lot can break the touch barrier so quickly, then with looks of confusion, flake a bit, then comes a cat-and-mouse aspect of displaying and sharing emotions. But somehow it works.

When you go full introverted mode, is it to the point where you want to be completely alone? Do you want physical contact of comfort or simply somebody intimate to be physically close by? Do you want words of comfort, or silent understanding? If I, who never knows what to say, like, ever, remains silent, would an ENFP naturally speak their mind if they wanted to / as appropriate?