If we’re going by the “are you energized/drained by being with people/alone” spectrum, then I think I would be more confident in saying that I fall more on the E side. But sometimes, I feel like Fi is strong enough to be my dominant function. If there’s one thing that has remained consistent throughout this confusing journey, it’s my Fi. I can see that clearly. And in return, I don’t feel like I see enough Ne to be ENFP. Plus, my thing with Si. I’m not sure if it’s inferior or tertiary because I relate to aspects of both.

I think the biggest issue in my life is not being able to really let go to certain things. I can’t let go of this certain part of my past, this certain group that the universe seems to be going out of its way to keep me away from them, and things that I’ve gotten obsessed with, no matter how much it’s affecting my life there are certain things I just can’t let go.

I think both ENFP and INFP are equally likely and both have compelling evidence, both of them account for all the functions I relate to just in a different order. My problem is, I just can’t find that order.

Does anybody else have this problem? And if possible, what are some ways that could help me tell them apart and find which one is more likely?