I've wondering for my other ENFP-A people how do you make new friends when you have trust issues.

For some context I'm trying to put myself out there again and meet new people and make new friends. I have developed trust issues with new potential friends, from being used as a back up/comfort friend from my old friend groups and flings from the past. I am trying to grow as a person and stop making the same mistakes or falling into to same traps I fall into. I understand not everyone are like from the people from my past, the problem i seem to have is i get attach or invested into people and I just don't want to get hurt again. I'm curious in what sort of people personality types mesh well with mine and what kinda things I can do to attract those kinda people into my life. I am hoping maybe somebody can help me out and I appreciate anyone who read this long winded post.