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Kind of just done. Considering writing off any form of relationship with my sisters.
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Apparently my younger sister decided to talk to our eldest sister again after probably five plus years of hostile silence between them. Issues between the two that aren't really important to the tale here. Eldest sister has been trying incessantly to get me to be all close and buddy buddy with her for better than ten years and the best I have for her is non-hostile holidays and generally being pleasant as long as she shows some respect for my wishes to not be touched by her..like hugs are fucking out.

Back to where this is really going. Younger sister has had some shit happen in her life, mostly some things that could have been mitigated by not doing every drug she could lay eyes on. Apparently one of the people she tried to score from raped her. It's horrible and I don't blame her for having been raped. I do blame her for seeking out drugs.

She and the older sister talk and somehow it becomes the my life is harder game. Older sister proceeds to tell younger one that our dad molested her. A patently false statement, I won't go into the reasons exactly, but in the 30 years since it allegedly happened there's been not one peep, indication, or anything to so much as hint a fart on the wind it happened. And the older sister is known to tell even the most outlandish of lies just to make it seem like she's better/worse/whatever fits the situation than anyone and everyone else.

Cue me getting a call from my younger sister bitching to me about the older doing/saying her bullshit. Except not only is my younger sister spreading an obvious to anyone that pays attention lie, she's framing it from her own perspective as if it isn't because she gets attention too, while simultaneously saying that she knows it isn't true. Now older sister has done damage to younger's relationship with our dad, but younger is spreading or attempting to spread it simply for the sake of the depression Olympics and the attention and leniency it might engender towards her other behaviour.

I do not, in any way play into drama, much less like it. My view is that if you're going to accuse someone and potentially destroy their reputation, relationships and possibly bring forward criminal repurcussions, you'd better come with evidence or fuck right off to where you came from.

The one saying this crap, and the younger spreading it. Both without evidence, and they both know that this shit will color anyone they tell it to's perspective of our dad is unacceptable to me.

I'm considering shaving my head and tattooing "leave me alone" on every visible surface of my body, then crawling into a cave only to emerge for work and food.

I'm probably going to far with my view on this, but I'm so damn sick of it all. Every time the shit gets shoveled away from the last bit of crazy from one or both; a newer, bigger and stinkier pile appears right on schedule. They're constitutionally incapable of living a life without crapping everything up for those around them.

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