We are a mid 40s swinger couple 14 years, wife has a rape fantasy also called cnc(consent non- consensual) in the kink world. Also has interest in blackmail/sextortion kink. This question can pertain to both kinks .

So cnc is basically set up by me or another person other than victim. The person playing the role of assailant is told a location,time, date of where wife will be. They either break in, door left open(hotel room) or they physically take control of her in public. Details of what's allowed are discussed by everyone but her. But besides alcohol what would be something easily available (hopefully we can find online on some obscure page) basic bullshit available locally where we are in south jersey unfortunately.

Thinking something like a sedative. Ghb Mdma Ketamine Even ambien or attavan ( not sure if it would give desired effect)

Something lack of control, heavy sleep, memory loss, just some thoughts, honestly don't know

I'm a cocaine person. That's all I consider myself an expert on, lol

We play when we are in Atlantic city at casinos Just gets her in the right mood and vibe

Not sure if I'm even allowed to post this, but it's legit, Not trying to be shady. It's a 100% true fantasy of hers and wants it to be realistic. Obviously I pick a person who i know wont go beyond our rules, but it can be pretty intense and hardcore based on other couples stories, which is her style

Ty