There’s so many women that finally get pregnant after years and sometimes decades, that are terrified to even find out the gender or buy anything, because of the fear of losing baby. There’s nothing cutesy about it. And then for the women who truly won’t get to experience this, it’s absolutely awful what she is doing when you really think about it. Just because there were things that could’ve made it less likely to conceive (Gabe’s health issues) is not the same as experiencing infertility. You’re 22 and got pregnant within less than a year. I have some lady issues that could make it harder to conceive, however when it came to getting and staying pregnant there was never an issue. I would never walk around saying “I never thought this would happen” and put myself in the same boat as women genuinely struggling with getting pregnant. She has NO idea.