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I recently just discovered your youtube page. I absolutely adore your content🧡
I'm not sure if you'll ever see this and I apologize if this isn't the correct way to suggest something, I just can't seem to figure out another way to contact you. But I see you sometimes take suggestions and I figured I'd throw mine your way. Again, I know you'll probably never see this but it's out there in case you do. I'm a STAHD(Stay At Home Dad) in a lifeless, sexless, unfulfilled, unsatisfied, miserable, sometimes meaningless, marriage(TMI). I love my wife but she killed the love a long time ago, that's another story. Fast forward a couple years and we somehow have 2 girls. I lost my Job due to COVID-19 but she was able to go back to work at her old Telecommunications company after she had our daughters, which she did bc how the hell can we take care of two kids with no income? Well that meant I had to stay home for the time being. No problem. Yeah I would have rather of been at work(bc it was honesty less stressful) but at least I was at home with my daughters. Daycare is expensive so my wife sat me down and told me we'd save money if I just watched them at the house. By this time she had gotten a promotion and was making decent money. And that's when she started staying out later, taking on more shifts, talking to more coworkers, blah blah blah. She doesn't tend to the kids, I literally do everything. EVERYTHING. I get she has to work but that's just life, right? It wasn't easy getting off a 12hr shift myself just to sit in a mcdonds line or go looking got random shit she was craving during the pregnancy. The point I've been trying to make to her is we are a team even though we just coexist now. But she doesn't get it. I'm stressed bc of the kids she's stressed bc of work. She gets home and does nothing but scream at them. I can't handle anymore screaming its what I do all day I mean I have two 2yr Olds. I start to angry at her out of frustration bc I just want understanding from her side and it's never there. I get you're tired but SO AM I. So she just comes home and she acts like she doesn't need to be bothered at all bc she makes the money, so she just goes to sleep bc she needs her rest for work, but what about me? Anyways, Sorry about all thay. If you could make a video geared towards stay at home dads whose wifes finally notice them or appreciate them I would be forever grateful. Or One where the wife understands that just bc you aren't working right now doesn't mean you're useless and not important. Taking care of kids on your own is really tough and depressing.
Thank you for your time.
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