hey y’all, sorry if that title sounds super depressing! this is not me asking for mental help or advice or anything, just kinda a shout into the void for some kind words. anyway…

so i recently realized that i may be a lesbian, and that’s kinda freaked me out a bit cause of all my past serious relationships being with men. so now i’m in this weird headspace where i don’t feel like i will be able to find a woman to love me, especially me as a sub. i’m not publicly/visibly very submissive, and i’m just worried i won’t attract anyone compatible with me or maybe not anyone at all! this is basically just an extension of my insecurities about myself in relationships, but it’s been very scary to navigate. so i’m just kinda asking for some reassurance that i will be enough for somebody. i feel just very unattractive and unlovable, so i apologize that i sound like i’m fishing for compliments a bit but i’m insecure y’all.

if you read all this, thank you so very much. i appreciate all of you. ❤️ also any terms of endearment are totally good with me, i’m not picky! (and i don’t mind if you’re a man, despite me maybe not being attracted to y’all)