So lately I just haven’t felt the same love for my wife. We have a 2 year old and since then we barely have sex (which I feel is normal?) but aside from that I just feel like other issues have been piling up and things that I didn’t really pay attention to are now serious issues and I’m questioning if I still love her the way I should if I’m still gunna be married to her. I just have felt so unloved, undesired, and unloved. Even with a baby/toddler I see so many other couples not having this issue so it makes me concerned that I possibly have just grown and drifted away in the absence of connection and love from her. We’re gunna try counseling but it just feels like I’m living with a friend and not a wife. The biggest fear of divorce is not leaving her but more about not seeing my son every day and possibly having another man partially raise him one day. I’m so torn on what to do and how I feel. I’d really appreciate some wisdom from you gents who have crossed this bridge and maybe felt the same way as me. Thank you for your time!