I'm only 28, I say only because everyone I talk to says I'm lucky for to have happened this young. But I'm not sure what to do from here.

The legal will work out, it should be fairly simple, she had a daughter, but never let me adopt. She's either going to have to refinance the house to keep it solely under her name or sell it and give me a little cash (weren't even in the house together for a year).

I'm fully aware I'm better without her, she said she wasn't sure if she ever even loved me. Looking back at all the red flags I ignored it was clear as day. But that doesn't mean I have any idea what to do now.

We both are basically starting at 0 with the main difference I'm now back at my parents house. And I've started seeing a therapist and am dealing with my anxiety that has gone undiagnosed my whole life now.

I'm trying to live step by step not looking too far ahead, but I honestly keep confusing my priorities. I'm stopping drinking (mostly) because I'm noticing I'm doing it for the wrong reasons, like trying to curb my anxiety when I'm out, it's led to some binge drinking.

I'm not sure why I'm posting this, maybe it's to know that I'm not alone, even though I know a million people have gone through this? I just feel lost, unsure what my future is after I had it all seemingly figured out. Starting over completely at 28 feels intimidating, despite everyone telling me it isn't. It just feels like I'm swimming in unsettled waters.