I have lots of questions concerning filing and some of the word use in the papers. I'll have more questions in another post

(Edit: my first question is: do I refer to the Respondent with her new last name [mine] or should I list her maiden name? She told that since she has no IDs with her new first name and her maiden last name that they won't know who she is. Part of me wants to help her out but I also don't want my last name on all the stuff she is gonna she debt on)

1. It says "Our domestic partnership was established in California. Neither of us has to be a resident or have a domicile in California to dissolve our partnership here" // I suppose it doesn't matter because it's talking specifically of domestic partnership and not marriage. I think
2. The "Seperate Property" and "Community and Quadi-Cmunoty Property" sections have two options. One is "There are no such debts that I know of to be divided by the court." And the other is "Confirm as seperate property the assets and debts in Property Declaration" for the former and "Determine rights to community and quasi-conmunity assets and debts. All such assets and debts are listed..." For the latter. I'm not sure how to answer those
3. For the Assets, do I list every single thing that we own separately? I was going to list none on all of them since we have not bought anything together, therefore there's no need to proportionate anything in the assets. Am I right?
4. If you say that you are married should you also list yourself as having domestic partnership with your stbx since we lived under the same lease?