Alright, so I want to preface this by saying that I’m not looking for the “forget her, lawyer up, you’re better off without her” feedback or opinions…

Wife and I are separated and going through the divorce motions. She initiated everything and I would very much like to work through this instead of going through with the divorce.

She was very distant for a month or two but lately I’ve noticed little things here and there that definitely would not have happened in the past that make me think that she may thinking twice or having some kind of feelings. This is month 3 of the separation.

1) She put “dad’s” stocking up in her house along with her stocking and the kid’s stockings.

2) She bought an ornament, that is for me, to hang on her tree.

3) She has started to wear her wedding ring again but on her right hand.

4) We have a co-parenting app that says when the last time she checked the messages, and I noticed that she will check at like 3:35am or 4:15am. Some time early morning where there would be no real reason to check.

I don’t know. like I said, stuff like this absolutely would not have happened a month ago.

Anyone go through something similar? Thoughts? Advice?

I’m just playing it cool and trying to be pretty much apathetic about everything at the moment.