I'm in the midst of some shit right now and need help. I feel like I'm going down a road well traveled.

I don't need legal advice, I don’t need a therapist, or more time at the gym. I need help dealing with a hostile ex. Almost like a divorce coach to help me get to the other side.

My situation: CA 12 years 8 and 11-year-olds Own a home and still living together $2M in assets Hostile ex has lawyered up. Won't talk with me. Emails crazy shit.

I have an excellent lawyer. But here are some of my questions:

How to communicate with someone who hates you?

How do I avoid spending a fortune on legal fees when everything is contested?

What compromises should I consider to expedite a settlement?

The division of illiquid assets.

Consideration for a special needs child?