Like most of you, I don’t want to be in this situation… But here we are. My husband is so mean and combative all because he’s an enmeshed mamas boy who only cares about his mother’s happiness. She spreads smear campaigns about me to the whole family and I’m not allowed to have feelings about it. They get to dictate every holiday and I’m not allowed to have feelings about it. I get to sit there and be ignored by them all… but if I tell my husband that hurts me when they ignore me, he says I deserve it and if I say anything further, I’m “nuts” and “ridiculous”.

So now here we are. How much is this gonna cost? I’m basically living 2000 miles away from my family (I stupidly moved here to be with my husband and his enmeshed family). I have a 2-year-old and care for her full time. How long will this process last?

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