my wife and I still have enormous love for each other sadly... we fight and bicker like crazy though. Yesterday during the argument she told me that I was emotionally abusing her. That's when I realized that no matter how much you love each other and how long you've been trying to fix it and get along, sometimes its better to call it quits. I told her that if she's being abused, then she needs to leave, and after we spiraled down that rabbit hole, I've come to the conclusion that once it reaches the point that someone says this is abuse, its time to end it. I think a part of her knows and agrees, and a part of her wants to keep trying. We tried so hard for so long, so many therapy sessions... a lot of fights and love. And its over. I cant stop crying