About a month ago, my wife told me she needed me to leave. We both have mental health challenges and are adult students-source of much stress. We are both working on ourselves, in therapy etc. We are on good terms but the several times I asked that we set boundaries/rules for this separation she wasn't willing and became very emotional. I know we're both doing the best we can and that a future between us after some time may be a possibility. I have seen her on two occasions since the start and we are not having sex as it makes her very emotional. I'm doing well on my own but the ambiguity about what any of this means has got me feeling all sorts of confused. I've been in and out of serious relationships since my early 20s. I've never had casual sex with anyone. I want to now more than ever but am all sorts of torn. I'm doing a lot of great things with my life right now and "focusing on myself". Myself wants to just get laid without any of the commitment. Is it a mistake to do so? Really not sure what I should or should not do here. Any advice is appreciated.