38 m. So I'm over the year point as far as seperation. Only a few months divorced. I'm just now feeling comfortable finding more than sex. The issue I'm running into is ghosting.

Not just texting and disappear. I'm talking date, great time. I even get a "I'll text you later". Latest woman I fear is leaning toward ghost too. We had two great dates. Even made out on the second. It felt like there could of been more. Even the day after we were texting. Then nothing.

Why do they do it? I'm even open about "if you aren't feeling it, just tell me." That was even a subject during a date with the second woman. We talked horror stories etc. I explicitly said "just don't ghost. Tell me. I'm an adult".

I don't know. It's so deflating. And I feel bad for the next woman because I might put less effort in because of that.