Hi friends! It’s been seven months since the divorce. She filed it and blindsided me with. Needless to say I was beyond hurt. Infidelity and lies from her part. I have come to terms with it. No longer love her and I keep communication open only if it’s about our son. Had a come to Jesus meeting with her in February and told her I’m not your enemy but I’m not your friend. I’m confused as to why she wants me to tell her happy birthday, happy Mother’s Day and be friendly with her. She goes out of the way to say “it’s not fair that your nice to my family and not me.” Her family reaches out to me, whatever she told them about our divorce was unknown but they still say that they love me and miss me. I don’t trust my ex wife, if I don’t trust you I want nothing to do with you. My ex knows this is how I am yet still is adamant that I be nice to her and she still wants to be friends. What does she want from me? Any advice or perspective is appreciated.