I(38 M) and my wife(41 F) are on the cusp of divorce. We get along fine. No fights, no arguing. I'm definitely reluctant but she seems to be forcing it. This all came after her dad died. And I think it's a sort of midlife crisis.

Anyway, we have 2 kids. While she's a good mom and the financial breadwinner, I do almost everything else. Doctor/dentist appointments, take to and from school, get them when they are sick. Not too mention my work schedule helped a lot during the pandemic, allowing me to be home with them most of the day. She wants to move to another town about 45 minutes away. I asked her how she planned to do all that stuff on her own. Because my major concern is the kids. She just says she'll figure it out.

I understand her rush and excitement of something new that she feels she needs. But I don't think she's really thought about all the little stuff on top of the finances.

Just a ramble rant. Wanting to see if any others have had similar experiences.