Hello all,

I (37f) received papers from my husband (34M) today. No children or major properties together. We've only been married 2 years. I still want to work on our marriage. I would say our marriage dissolved over different religious backgrounds (both Christian, but different belief systems), sexual incompatability (him being LL--never wanting to be fully intimate, kiss, often didn't want to be touched) and lack of communication. During our marriage I also learned that my husband has issues with depression, suicidal tendencies, and he had to return to taking anti-depressants. He left 3 weeks ago asking for a separation. I was served with divorce papers today. In spite of all of this, I'm still hurt that he didn't try harder in the marriage. I feel like he dumped me like a 10th grade girlfriend instead of talking to me and communicating to me like an adult and his wife. I know we were only married 2 years, but it hurts. I do still love him. I called. He hasn't' returned my call. Any advice? I'm now blaming myself for things even thought I clearly know a lot of the mental and emotional issues were his. Advice? Where do I go from here? I think he is petitioning for marital assets we acquired together. Who gets the refrigerator, washing machine? TV? That's really the only property we acquired together.