I have a crush on a guy that feels so good I’m reluctant to stop letting myself think about him. I want it so badly, and he sort of initiated it so I think he likes me too. I’m only 5 months into our separation (headed to divorce), although we started down this path two years ago. I have two small kids, my crush is a coworker and the complete opposite of my stbx (who is also a coworker, although we’re all in different departments) which screams rebound to me. Seems like a bad idea all around. If he were some dude off the street I’d date him causally if nothing else to get it out of my system. I can barely think straight!

Have any of you had this sort of thing happen and figure out how to get past it without doing anything dumb? I feel like it isn’t anything actually special, I’m probably just so lonely anyone who smiles at me seems like Prince Charming.