We have been together for the last 7 years and for the last two have been doing couple's therapy. My wife got pregnant about 5 months ago right before we had decided that we were not compatible.

We have stayed together mostly cause of the pregnancy but the reasons why we want to separate still have not changed. Neither of us is happy with the relationship and the changes both of us have would have to make in order to stay together are unacceptable for each other.

There was no cheating or infidelity involved just a progressive decrease in the well-being of the relationship along with communication and/sex.

I was originally debating whether to stay together for the sake of our child but more and more I believe that I am in a lie/sham of a marriage and would rather use these few months to talk about co-parenting and best way of handling this situation. Wife disagrees would want not to discuss this at all during pregnancy or months thereafter which I believe is unhealthy and kicking the can till later.

Reddit, what would be the best way to handle this?