So my wife dropped the bomb the few weeks ago stating that she loves me but she is not in love with me. She's not happy and she doesn't know what can make her happy. I've had my bouts with depression and it was really bad a few years ago. But now I'm good. I try my hardest to ease the stress she puts on herself. We have 3 kids, 11, 5 and 9 months old. I can't stand the thought of ripping their lives apart. But she seems to be done. I know I got comfortable. And I messed up. If I could drop the 30 extra pounds to get from 225 to 190 I would (I've been trying).

So my question is.. what do you do when you're told that they you love you but not be in love with you?