I (27F) and my husband (29M) have been discussing things over the last month because I realized that I still don't want kids. When we got together, that was both of our stances, but along the way he decided he wanted kids. I caved for the sole reason of making him happy, but I finally realized I cant do that to either of us or a child, because I genuinely have never wanted kids. So we had opened this discussion a month ago and had a very logical discussion wherein he said he wanted to get fertility tested and if he could have kids wed talk about divorce.

Well, we got his results last week and he can. I have tried since opening the discussion but am constantly being shut down, told I "worry too much" and that "we dont need to worry about this right now". Over the last month, I have settled on the fact that we need a divorce. The kid thing is the main thing, but in all reality, we both heavily settled in our marriage and are not compatible.

I am really struggling to know how to push the conversation forward and get him to face this. Because right now I am carrying the weight of all of this on me and it is wearing me down. I have never even broken up with someone and am non-confrontational, so I am struggling with how to move forward with all this.