In short, I am leaning towards divorce due to my husband deciding he wants kids and I realized I only agreed because I wanted to make him happy. I finally accepted I do not want kids. When we discussed this, he wanted to get fertility tested to see if he can even have kids.

Well, we got those results yesterday. His count is slightly below average, however, that is the only abnormal thing. So basically, with lifestyle changes (he drinks, smokes and has a bad diet), he could easily change this. Even without these changes, he is able to have a child.

So, this leads into where we go from here. I am decided on divorce for both of our sakes, but I am not sure how to move forward with talking about this. I am confident in my decision, but also have fear about the pain this will carry and about my living situation while I finish school.

Any advice or support about how to broach the conversation of divorcing with your partner you still love.