I've financially supported my STBXW and her 2 kids for 7 years. I'm a supervisor at my company - Make just under half of what she does, but with my stock accounts and salary, I pay all of the bills.

She pays for her kids extra curricular activities - Like Hockey - I get nothing to support the household expenses.

Rarely she buys me "snacks" and this is her contribution to me.

I was almost drafted in 04-05 as a goalie - Just didn't follow through - Became a contractor instead and went overseas. - I'm not allowed at hockey because texting my stepkids how to improve is too critical of them and their coaches may not agree with what I have to say...

Her ex-husband is the asshole of the century. Every single car ride with the step-kids is spent brainwashing them into a life with him and my STBXW together again...Like the ENTIRE car ride.

Told her she should call DCS because it's clear abuse - She chooses not to...

Whenever I've asked her to show up, or say I didn't feel loved - She quipped that nothing she ever did was good enough...Never actually fixed the problem.

She's been a parasite for so long, I can't wait for a life free of the excuses.

I'm sorry, I know some of you really struggle and were deeply in love with your partners.

I was, I'll always love her - But at some point - They have to be accountable even to themselves.