So, the wife is telling me she wants a divorce mostly due to my excessively long work hours ( 14 to 15 hours a day with travel time included) so I work, pay all the bills, our health care is covered by my employer, she watches the child, cleans and cooks, and buys things at thrift stores and resells them, so she has a "friend " I'm pretty sure of it( phone calls and texts are proof) when I walk into a room and she's on the phone she says ,he's here's gotta go. I worry she will take my child and move in with her friend, so, how do I stop this from happening? Can't stop working, we had an argument yesterday and today she took our child and never answered my calls or texts, ALL DAM DAY! So if no communication from her for 12 hours do I contact the police? What do I say?