My wife and I were together for 12 years before we decided in January to mutually separate and move towards divorce. We have two kids together. Even though it was mutual.....she clearly has moved on much faster than I have. It's been 6 months and I still miss her, I still love her, I still wish she was in my life...even after all of the bad things we did to each other. We were at a lunch for my daughter's birthday today and all I could do was hold back tears....she's a great mom, and I'm never going to find someone that has her beauty combined with her personality like that again. How the hell do people do it? How do they compartmentalize their feelings for someone like that and move on? I feel like this pain is never going to go away. I feel like I'll never be happy again.