We are rolling into month 8 of separation. I'm back in the family home. I tried to find a place that was cheap enough for me to finish schooling and still be a father to my two kids (I have been in the stay-at-home and student role for 3 years). It just isn't working out. I found a job that pays very well and will support my career goals. I nailed the interview. I am waiting for the call and if I get the offer I will take it. I don't know when I will get to see my kids if I get the job, though. I could try and stay in the family home, but that is driving me to want to reconcile with my ex. I don't think the interaction between us is good for me. She is dating, and it hurts me to see (I get it, and it's not her fault she found someone). I know I need the space. I know this is what needs to happen. I just can't stand the idea of losing time with my kids. How do you survive going from dad every day to dad on the weekends (maybe)?