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If/when you divorce (or if you are already), what are you going to look for in your next partner if you're seeking a female? I'm interested in both physical and non-physical attributes? What is important to you?
I'm in the midst of a "grey" divorce and haven't been "on the market" in over 20 years. It's a little daunting. I worry about whether or not I will have what men are looking for (in both ways). Clearly everyone is different but just curious!
I (33M) found out yesterday that my STBXW is a malignant narcissist. I am almost to my hearing and then fortunately just a 10 day waiting period before it’s done.
What am I looking for?
Someone who actually cares about me and my feelings. Someone who doesn’t seek validation from other men. Someone who wants to build a life together not just ride on mine. Someone who will love my dogs and hopefully will want to have children.
I’ve done the work - still go to therapy. I am successful and getting all the marriage weight off… like just someone who cares about me, actually cares. That’d be great.
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