The truth finally came out.

You can see my post from a few ago detailing the struggles of my 25 year marriage. I've been going to therapy for myself. Just last week I suggested marriage counseling. She said yes but she's been in therapy for 3 years. Today, I knew something was up so I pressured her via phone so my son couldn't hear. I asked were she was all day, she gave me a list of bullshit so I said I know you were cheating today. She didn't deny it. Of course her answer was I did and I didn't deny it. I said that bull. She did say that previously but I told her she was crazy and it Never happened. I said it's over. She said it's been over for a long time. I guess I didn't realize that being with someone for 25 years doesn't mean anything. I told her I'm moving to a different room and we can figure out selling the house. The next few weeks should be interesting. I'm researching divorce attorney's in New Jersey. Any advice would be appreciated as I try to process this.