I left my ex-husband 5 1/2 years ago b/c it was a toxic relationship. Divorced about 3 1/2 years ago. I decided to move in the same neighborhood as him for our teenaged kids. But I do have to drive by his house (our old house together) all the time. I've moved on (I think). I have dated but I decided not to date right now because I want to focus on our kids. It works for me. But I have noticed he has a car there often (even in early morning), so it seems like he is dating this person. Well, today I was driving home and I see that car now while he has the kids. To me, it means that he is finally introducing this person (male or female - he now claims he is bisexual) to our kids. I thought I would be cool with it. But I'm sad. Crazy, huh?