I'm looking for a normal friendship - tell me about your day. Show me your pet pics (regardless of any responses - If anyone sends me pet pics to my inbox, I consider that a win) and complain about your job or study. The sort of things you do with your normal friends. The side is I want us to both be comfortable to share nudes with each other while doing so. Not all the time, just when the moment is right! If your not in a space where you can send nudes, I still want to hear from you!

Im a 42 year old man from New Zealand (obviously) I'm your standard reddit nerd. I love gaming, i love cats and I'm actually pretty content with my life.

I'm also mostly asexual. Or at least on the spectrum. I have zero desire for sex or sexting, but there is something beautiful about the trust that sending nudes to each other brings. Its a good feeling when someone finds me attractive enough, and trusts me enough to want to send and receive nudes with me. We all want to be wanted right? This is one way i get to feel it.

I don't want sexting, and I don't want compulsion - just casual. Are we talking and it's time for a shower? No need to stop sending pics while we continue. Good morning pic with bits out because we sleep naked. Perfection.

I have a few requests though. Please be open to sharing your face with nudes - I don't want some random set of tits. I want them because they are attached to the person I talk to. Please also be over 25. There are exceptions to the rule - you'll know if you are. Note that I'm also looking for friends - which means equals. If you want me to buy your nudes its not equal. I'm sure there are plenty of people who are happy to, I'm just not one of them.

So don't hold back. Give this a try. Worst that can happen is we don't hit it off (which is ok) and we move on.

Looking forward to hearing from you soon :)