Hey everyone,

So, yesterday was my first post here, and honestly? I was not prepared for what happened next. The sheer number of messages was overwhelming—it just kept coming nonstop. So, after going through a lot of them, I figured I’d share a few thoughts.

Stop putting yourself down. Seriously, you guys are amazing. It doesn’t matter what you look like, how tall you are, or what shape you’re in. I noticed a lot of self-consciousness in the very first message, and trust me—it’s not necessary. You are worthy of love and attention. Confidence goes a long way.

Make your messages count. I got so many that I had to hand-pick a few of the better ones and randomly choose some others to chat with. If someone’s inbox is flooded, a simple “Hey” or “Hi sexy” won’t stand out. If you actually want a response, put in some effort—say something interesting, ask a question, be genuine.

Just… don’t. I can’t believe I have to say this, but apparently, I do. Unsolicited pics? Instant deal-breaker. No matter the size (which is subjective anyway), that’s not the way to start a conversation. I do like them, but why lead with that? It baffles me.

Patience is key. Not everyone will respond, and that’s just how it is. Some might take longer, some might not reply at all. And if they don’t? They’re not worth your time. Move on, simple as that.

Make it interesting. This ties back to the previous point. Share something about yourself. Be different. Make the conversation worth having. That’s what gets attention.

I might refine this list or update it later, but for now, that’s what was on my mind. 😊

If you made it this far—thank you for reading! Wishing you all a great day or night, and best of luck with your messages.