I have been around kink a while, at least long enough to know what works for me. The strongest connections I've made were not predicated on sex. It was there, always looming in the background, but the in-between conversations established an ongoing excitement. If sex is the foundation, chemistry is the artful styling. And women with smaller chests have always driven me wild. No shade to anyone who is larger, but little boobs are stunning, and the smaller the better.

I'm a bit irreverent. Friends say they are never sure what I am going to say, which is glowing praise. Even if I have moments of being deeply unserious, I value assertiveness in my everyday life. I like that I'm strong, fit, and decent looking. I wouldn't call myself an egomaniac, but I have a good thing going on. Having that center makes it easy to feel comfortable with myself and comfortable behind the wheel. But I don't always want to be in control; sometimes it's nice not having to think, turning off my brain and letting someone else lead.

If you're a switch, maybe you know what I mean. You might also understand that wanting to dominate or being dominated is a vibe. Some days you just want it to rain fire, and others you ache for the burn.

My primary kinks are humiliation based. I crave the adrenaline of shame and embarrassment because it is raw and vulnerable. I'd like to ideally engage in that, but they're not necessary. I'm open to exploration.

On a personal level, I'm a writer and am very into fitness. I mess around in photoshop and love dogs. I'd say I'm pretty simple in what I want, but complicated in how I got here.

Anyway, that's enough rambling. If any of that caught your eye, shoot me a DM.