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I'm generally attracted to white or Far Eastern girls, but dating as an Indian or Pakistani guy in the West is really hard. I've noticed that very few girls are specifically attracted to South Asian men, and that can make things feel even more challenging. It’s not just about looks either—it feels like there’s a cultural barrier or stereotype that makes South Asian men seem less appealing to some people.
I grew up in the UK, and even I find a lot of South Asian men socially very awkward, which is something I tend to avoid. It’s not that I dislike them as individuals, but their awkwardness can be hard to relate to. So, I totally understand why the dating or hookup scene is so hard for South Asian men. But it leaves me wondering: what can I do to make myself stand out or more appealing?
I’m aware that confidence is important, and I try to work on my appearance, fitness, and social skills. I even have a pic in my profile and I'd love to know what you think of me. But is there something else that could help? Are there specific qualities that women generally find attractive that I could focus on?
I really want advice from women because their perspective matters most to me in this context. If you’re a guy, please don’t message me—I’m looking for genuine, thoughtful insights from women who can offer advice based on their own preferences or experiences.
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