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This is hard to explain. I lost a lot of weight. 115lbs so far. And just like that I went from looking, frankly, horrible to being, I think, pretty good looking for a man his mid 30s...
So, why do I still feel like I look off putting? Is it imposter syndrome, or under all that fat, am I actually the imposter after all. I still can't seem to get any positive attention out there. I smile, I try to flirt, but it goes nowhere. Is there some kind of problem?
So, what can you do for me? I could stand to be rated, if you feel inclined. Some actual honesty to tell me if I look good or if I'm actually still atrocious looking.
Or we could rp a first encounter. I could practice flirting by trying to talk to you here the way I talk irl and see if that nets to anything.
Or, if you're inclined to it, you can just heep praise on me, because honestly, I could use it. You'd be doing me a big favor just building me up.
Some stats for reference; 5'10", around 185lbs, trimmed red beard, shaved head, blue eyes, a couple of tats. I'd describe my body type as "muscular dad bod" but your mileage may vary. I'm mostly only attracted to feminie-presenting people, but I'll chat with anyone.
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