The fact that the written word can get me every bit as aroused as actual physical contact makes me believe that I might have found the right place.

A challenge however is being able solicit a response and get in contact with someone where we both feel like our efforts are worthwile. Of course this is nothing new.

My following prompt is me trying to get in touch with a person who wanted to chat with a submissive male about his kinks and expressed curiosity and the wish for someone with some real world experience.

Since I feel like I've got stories worth telling, and not wanting to come across like I was just waiting for someone to mentally jerk me off, this was my response.

"Hello, After three years of living together I finally had the guts to tell my now ex girlfriend about my kinks. I had never openly described myself as sexually submissive before this. To this day, the months that followed me telling her about this were the most sexually exhilarating experience I've ever had and I would be happy to tell you all about it. How I got to the point of sharing my secrets, how this was recieved and what followed as our dynamic changed. I also have a very good grip on my sexuality and how it has changed through the years, and what caused me to develop these kinks. I got the feeling that is the kind of insight you'd like me to share. I'm a 32 year old Scandinavian male and I can only imagine you must be drowning in tiny dicks after your post, but I really hope I stand out enough to get the chance to chat with you. I am actually physically shaking as I am writing this because of how much this means to me. I don't want to come off as thinking too highly of myself, but I believe you could enjoy me and my experiences. I hope you have a great time here and that you will find what pleases you, even if I'm not it. Thank you."

Sexual jealousy is one of the strongest feelings I've ever experienced. Staying in the mental space of the rush of emotions it brings can easily become all consuming for me and I love the complexity and dissonance it brings.

The submissive side of my sexuality is rooted in feelings of inadequacy and an eagerness to please while physically not being enough myself. This mixed with my absolute fascination for female sexuality and pleasure, and letting that be the center of exploration, without letting my frail ego or romantic feelings stand in the way of your needs is my goal with this.

Your curious inquiry is as welcome as you telling me to cum for you while we chat and I wont beg you for gratification unless you tell me you'd like that to happen.

Sorry for being so lacking in humour, but I really tried to write something sincere. I actually find my kinks to be pretty hilarious.