I love when guys can read my insecurities and will give me their honest opinion. I'm a girl with a complex about not being as hot as I used to be.I was never one of those thin/fit girls, mostly because I like my occasional treat but in combination with my cheer routine, it balanced each other out. I've been putting on a ton of weight thanks to my daily grind and sedentary lifestyle and I'm in a dead relationship, but I also secretly love it. Degradation gets me off more than my boyfriend, so despite how shitty I feel over the situation, I've actually grown to enjoy it, especially when people degrade me by pointing out the obvious truth over and over and over. I get most of my sexual highs from people indulging my kinks, and they're the highlight of my day.Even my pics on reddit where I'm hiding my figure are quite old now, so if you wanna see how legitimately fat my boyfriend's eating habits have made me you might have to coax it out while I blush. But considering how pinpoint accurate some men are I'm sure you know exactly how big I've gotten, swallowing up milkshake after milkshake. But I'm sure you know that. Open by telling me all the little assumptions you have about me, read me and tell a story.So if you love reminding a spoiled midwestern girl of her place, send me a message and if you've pushed my buttons, you'll hear from me. I'd love to chat if you know how to treat a girl. Dominant, but very honest and caring. And obviously very flirty. Nothing sexier than a will they, won't they, right? I definitely want a safe space to talk about kinks and any experiences we've had. A guy who can ascertain all my insecurities is hot. I've hinted at that plenty. I looove men who are super into me, but don't mind bringing a critical gaze and wanna tease me about it.