That might seem like a weird ask to some, but maybe if I explain a little about myself, it’ll make sense.

I get a real kick out of feeling in charge and having control. There's nothing more powerful than making a woman feel beneath me, yet have her enjoy and even love it. Whether it's using harsh words or taking away her freedom, it all brings the same rush.

This is a big shift from how I usually am. Day-to-day, I'm polite, well-behaved, and I even read about ethics for fun. But when it's playtime, I love throwing all that aside and letting my desires run wild. On top of the thrill of being in control, I also like being caring and supportive, especially after we've finished a scene.

In other words: The rush I feel from dominating comes from the power; both to (playfully) hurt but also to tend and care for someone. It is important my partner enjoys it.

Which is why I love it when I get to play with submissive women who are in relationship where they don’t get that need fulfilled.

I get the rush of power from providing for a need, a rush of being able to give something another man couldn’t, and that is then coupled with the rush I get from playing in D/s dynamics.

It is thrill upon thrill upon thrill.

Whether your partner knows you write on Reddit or whether it is a dirty little secret is all fine by me.

So if this sounds intriguing, write me a message where you tell me about yourself, share your relationship details, and tell me what craving you wish you could get scratched. I can’t make any promises, but there is no harm in forming a connection and seeing where that takes us, right?

Kindly Chris