I (27 M bisexual) am a gentle/soft dom in how I relate to my submissive male. I work a demanding job in tech development, and am consistently dominant in how I go about my day. I used to swim quite a bit through college and have kept my lean physique through the past several years. When I am at home, I tend to wear tighter fitting clothes like base layers and equestrian riding jodhpurs, along with some knee-high riding boots. My primary boot of choice is the Ariat Heritage Contour Field boot. I’ll wear them with a variety of slim pants while talking with my subs.

I am of opinion that most subs carry with them a lot of virile energy that needs to be tamed. I believe this needs to be done very softly. I do not believe in humiliation, but I do believe in tamed discipline. I do not think it takes a lot of effort to humble a sub and make him get to the point where he is pouty and achy and weak. Those that employ aggressive BDSM techniques are too far off base in my opinion. If you seek that, please look elsewhere.

About you: I am looking to chat with a male submissive who prefers a gentler approach to being tamed. A sub who is comfortable saying things like “please and thank you,” and “yes Sir,” and understands their place. I understand that it will be hard sometimes to endure obedience and discipline, and that’s okay because I can be the “crying shoulder” you need when pouty or achy. The best subs are the ones that endure their struggle while being gentled, humbled, and defeated.

Kinks/Interests: softcore BDSM, praise/encouragement, gentling, taming, rope bondage, clothing control, athleisure wear, equestrian gear, CMNM, cum control, chastity, etc.

Limits: anything hardcore, anal, bathroom stuff, etc.

Users or characters must be 18

Reddit chat preferred.