You’re about to enter into a long, detail, and exciting conversation that will have us sharing regular messages, enjoying flirty vibes, and exploring new areas together. All you need to be as open-minded and to take a chance on someone a little different.

It dawned on me that I must be some sort of statistical anomaly. You see the groups of postings I write are different and have thought put into them to create them. The fact that after all this time I still haven’t found what I’m looking for means that I’m either just incredibly unlucky or I haven’t reached the right person yet. Maybe that person is you :-)

So what will happen next?

If you’re anything like me, you will read all the way through this post and there will be some things you really relate to and others that you don’t. To help you work out what to do next you’ll try to gather as much information as possible and do your research before deciding to send me a message. Once you’ve decided, in all the excitement you will have forgotten some of the areas in this original post so you’ll come back and re-read it ready to create a good impression in your first message.

The first messages will start slow, we are strangers on the Internet after all. We’ll talk about time zones, what is planned for your day, and I’ll ask what sparked your interest to message me?

From there, if we’re both feeling an initial vibe, we will start to get to know each other a little better. Work out whether we have some similar tastes and views and ask some ‘this or that’ questions (cheese or chocolate, beach or mountains, lace or silk, those sorts of things).

Then we’ll start to talk about some of the more intimate areas. We will get into some of our kinks and our experience with them as well as what we’re looking to explore on here. We will cover off the less desirable things about me; that I am trans and that in itself is a massive can of worms to open, and that I explore the side of me discreetly so I can try figure out who I am. They won’t be for everyone and that’s OK :-)

If you’re still around by this point, this is where I start to get all jittery and excited. On one hand, it feels really amazing, but on the other the reality of our conversation being between two strangers starts to set in. I cannot tell you how many times I have been lied to on here and more so recently for some reason. So right now I am extra vigilant and it will probably start to make me a little nervous at this point. So be prepared for me to get a little weird and to send a photo that’s real (my name on a piece of paper against your leg, that sort of thing).

What I’m looking for right now, what I’d like to talk about, is how I’ve recently become infatuated with searching for and wearing sexy lingerie. I’ve got a 38K bra ready for my next night away and I want to talk about how to turn the evening into an old fashioned pamper session. If you haven’t worked out by now I’m very descriptive with my writing and I like to talk about all the details behind an idea. We will talk about it now and build up some areas to explore together. It turns out I’m a people pleaser so pushing myself for someone is a big driver! I’m not looking for a domme but instead a contributor to the idea and to gently guide and push boundaries. By the time we get the night away we will be ready to enjoy it together putting all our thoughts and plans into action.

I’m not sure what happens next, I haven’t seen that far yet, so it’s time for you to show me :-)

Not looking for 24/7 messaging, I have too much at work and home to be around that much. Those little regular orange dots are incredible though when we both have time. Typically I’ll be around mostly 9-5 but it just depends on workload.

If this post isn’t for you then no problem. Instead of sending hate, do something nice for someone today and spread a little positivity. Jess xx