Short version: Effectively married guy, in a dead bedroom situation, looking for a friend, fun, a little excitement as well an outlet to release some sexual frustration.

Longer version: As the title says, I’m in a long-term relationship, and I’m not looking to change that or turn my life or yours upside down. It is however, a dead bedroom situation and has been for some time now, hence here I am.

It'd be nice to have some female friendship and fun with someone I connect with, share that spark with, to chat and flirt, and just generally brighten up both our days. I'd want to talk about normal day to day things and our lives, not just NSFW smut. Just hearing about you and your day would be nice. I’d prefer something long term, as I'd rather get to know someone. Preferably this person would be in the UK, as it would work better in terms of time zones, though don't be put off if you're not looking for exactly the same thing or aren't in the UK, I'd still love to hear from you.

I work from home in the week doing what is, at times, a stressful job in tech, but I do travel into London to the office a day per week. As for interests, I'm a bit of a nerd, and into what I would term the usual nerd type stuff, a bit of gaming, cooking, and by extension, food & drink, travel as well as watching films. Beyond that and work, I'm just a regular guy with a normal life. I'm not laying any claim to being the coolest guy in the world, my humour can be cringe worthy and I have a questionable taste in music at times.

This could maybe move towards an IRL meeting up, or it may just stay online, we'll see how it goes and what we both want. If it did progress to IRL, it would need to stay discreet for obvious reasons.

If you think you’d be interested I’d love to hear from you, drop me a chat request and let’s see how we get on.