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I have been friendzoning my friend for a long time now. We met on tinder and I knew right away that I didn't like him sexually. However, he is very good to talk to, very nice, supportive and funny. Not long after we met, I started telling him about me dating other guys. At first he was surprised, but then he himself began to ask for details, who I was seeing, whether I had slept with them, etc. I'm quite open about these things, plus I noticed that he likes to hear and read about it, so I already inform him on a regular basis that on a given day I won't have time for him because I'll be making out with a newly met boy from tinder.
I also openly tell him that they are more handsome than him (that is, he asks himself if they are more handsome, taller, or better paid - and I answer him that yes) - he doesn't get offended about it, so I think he gets excited about the humiliation aspect as well, although sometimes he says that it would definitely be better with him - I answer him that I rather doubt it, and besides, we'll never find out haha. He also often helps me pick out clothes for my dates, and I always like to ask his opinion on what shoes or shirt to choose.
I wonder if I should continue this - he seems to really like hearing about it, plus I also like it because I've always wanted to talk to someone about it and never had anyone to talk to - and now I have the opportunity. What do you guys think? You can send me your opinions in DM or in the comments.
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