I'm a plus-size guy in an open marriage. I have a primary partner but have her blessing and consent to look for other partners. I'm primarily looking for something on the FWB side, with a good mix of friendship and sex, but am open to feelings if they develop, as long as you understand that my wife will always be my #1 person.

I'm looking for both in-person and online fun, whether that's with one person who wants both or one person who's local and someone else who's a good match online. In either case, please be single or ethically non-mongamous.

For in-person, I can't host but I'm based in York Region and can travel within Toronto and the GTA and a reasonable distance outside it. Let's hang out, get to know each other, have fun and laugh together, and share some pleasure. I've got a fairly open schedule and can meet every week or two. Please be a non-smoker and DDF (420 is fine with me, but nothing past that).

Online, I'm looking for someone who's free around 11 PM EST and later (or something comparable in another timezone), as that's when I'm alone and I try not to take too much time away from my partner. I hope to find someone who likes to message on and off and get to know each other, who's into voice or video fun.

I'm into board games, video games, trivia, museums, and tabletop RPGs (though it's been a year and a half since the campaign I DMed ended). I have fairly broad tastes in most things and love learning new things and love variety. I'm deeply into music; I'm a keyboard player and go to live shows fairly often, anything from modern jazz and prog rock (my favourites) to the orchestra to 90s rock/alternative.

I'm a pretty positive person. I love to laugh, love intelligence, and am kind and respectful by nature. Consent and honesty are core values. I'm very body-positive and sex-positive and am in a stage of wanting to explore new things with new people.

About you: I'm looking for someone kind, positive, funny, and intelligent, with a dirty mind. It'd be nice to have some common interests, but if you're passionate about something and love to share your passions and hear others' passions, we'll have a lot to talk about. I'm open to any race and body type. Please be in your late 20s or older; and be looking for something similar.

My chats and DMs are open. If I've caught your interest, let's talk!