i told myself i wouldn’t make this post, but here we are. maybe it’s the strangeness of season… 🌚 title says F4M, but gender doesn’t matter too much to me. you’ll see the kind of person i’m seeking below.

❗️NOTE: i’m not looking for a quick sexting session, or just sex chat with no other substance. please don’t message me if that’s what you are looking for.

☺️ ANOTHER NOTE: this is a long post and yes, i am picky! i know what i like, what i want, and who i am attracted to. if i don’t respond please don’t take it personally, and if we aren’t a good match, that’s okay. :)

so, i’m looking for a KIND, confident, chill, handsome, Dominant, intellectual, and successful person to chat with, about our days, music, interests, and if the chemistry is there, many other things. ;)

❄️ i’m not looking for a serious relationship right now. i believe i still need some time before that comes. but i do want someone to have great conversation with and make these winter days a lot less frigid and dark. if things do become more serious and it’s a healthy match, i’m open to exploring it.

✨ about me:

• 35 years old
• a bit under 5’5”
• dark hair and eyes
• mixed (ancestry chart is all over the place)
• introvert mostly
• style-wise: alternative / goth…ish? feminine
• tattooed, and want more
• interested in music (mainly metal, but open to a lot), art, nature hikes, old films, reading, style, travel, consciousness, spirituality, video games
• i’m not religious. but i am spiritual
• childfree, and NO desire to change that
• single, unattached
• submissive, with a lot of kinks

✨about you: (again, i’m picky so plz don’t take it personally)

• my age or older (hopefully older)
• tall (please be 5’9” or taller)
• in shape (don’t have to be a bodybuilder. just healthy)
• long hair is a major plus, hair in general is my preference, not too into shaved look
• Dominant, with a healthy understanding of BDSM. we have to build some trust and a good connection before getting into all that. must respect limits.
• successful, stable! good at what you do
• creative, into art / literature
• NOT MARRIED, single. please do not start a chat with me if you are trying to cheat on a partner.
• open-minded and passionate, can be romantic
• you take care of your mental health!

✨ if you’ve read this far, thank you. and if you’re thinking we might oddly enough be a good match to spend some (virtual) time together this season— then give it a go and send a chat.